Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through?

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Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through? Mar 5, 2014 22:37:31 GMT -6 via mobile

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Post by matsuke on Mar 5, 2014 22:37:31 GMT -6

So my summer was quite an interesting one, I didn't really have much goin on until BOOM
Simple story, girl meets boy, boy meets girl, the two fall in love but thats when they realize
DUN
DUN
DUNNNNN
They're kinda on complete opposites of the country.

Even though we started getting romantic back in August, it wasn't until January that my boyfriend asked me out. And even then we both confessed to each other weeks before we got together.
We thought about it for a while since the odds of us being able to see each other any time soon is like none. If things didn't work out would it be worth the heart break?
Anywho, what are some things to do together in a LDR?

We like to skype a lot, very rarely we webcam, he seemed more interested in cammming when he saw me in my nightgown ohohoho~
Online games, recently me and him have been into minecraft!
Smaller games like tic tac toe or picionary
We also send each other things from time to time

A great website with amazing ideas is a blog called Loving From A Distance, sounds kinda cheesy but it has some really great ideas.
To keep things interesting i'd appreciate any suggestions and ideas!
Thanks for readin haha!

Aye Yo Qt 3.14 ;D

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Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through? Mar 5, 2014 22:44:01 GMT -6

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Post by Admin on Mar 5, 2014 22:44:01 GMT -6

Awwww! Long distance relationships can be pretty fun, and surprisingly healthy. They allow room for independence and to remind yourself that you don't need to be attached at the hip to be in love!
As for if it's worth the heart break, consider like you would any relationship. The benefit to this one is that if it really didn't work out, you wouldn't be forced to see their face everywhere you go, or hear their name. ^^

As for things to do: I used to love playing Runescape with my long-distance ex. We spent more time just getting into crazy antics than anything(me attacking something I clearly couldn't handle and forcing him to save me) but it was fun. If you're able, and you have a game system, you could try online games that allow you to play with other people online or just with your friends. I'm saving up so that my current boyfriend and I can get a second copy of GTA5 so he can play on my family's ps3 while I repeatedly slam a car into his. xD

Also, you mentioned that he got 'interested' in camming when he saw you in a nightgown. What level is your relationship at right now? ^^

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Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through? Mar 5, 2014 23:00:41 GMT -6 via mobile

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Post by matsuke on Mar 5, 2014 23:00:41 GMT -6

Ah man runescapeee, if it was like runescape classic still, me and him would play that all day erry day. Sadly he doesnt have a game system so we stick to computer or webcam games

Hmmmm not sure what ya exactly mean by level but we're pretty close! On a romantic level not so much, we compare ourselves to other couples we see and laugh at how casual we are sometimes. I want to get a little more romantic with him but with him being the oldest, i'm not too sure what to do.
We're kinda sorta open about saying I love you to each other but XD sometimes I still feel shy sayin it.

I can tell he holds back a lot, whether it's cause he's shy or because he thinks i'm too young, I want him to know bein more like a couple is okay. I'm sure it would make the both of us even happier than we already are.

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Admin Administrator Don't forget to follow toriosophy.tumblr.com! Posts: 789 Gender: Female	Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through? Mar 5, 2014 23:05:57 GMT -6 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Admin on Mar 5, 2014 23:05:57 GMT -6 Sorry I'm on my phone so I'll reply better when i get home. xD I mean are you guys active or not? I just don't want to assume anything. ^^

matsuke New Posts: 35 Gender: Qt 3.14	Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through? Mar 5, 2014 23:17:18 GMT -6 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by matsuke on Mar 5, 2014 23:17:18 GMT -6 ohhhh haha nah we aren't quite there yet! XD it'll probably be a little while before then.
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Admin Administrator Don't forget to follow toriosophy.tumblr.com! Posts: 789 Gender: Female	Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through? Mar 6, 2014 1:00:16 GMT -6 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Admin on Mar 6, 2014 1:00:16 GMT -6 That's alright! It's just the way it was worded I didn't want to assume. xD You should definitely talk to him and see how he feels about being more romantic, and that you would like to. ^^

matsuke New Posts: 35 Gender: Qt 3.14	Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through? Mar 6, 2014 13:57:53 GMT -6 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by matsuke on Mar 6, 2014 13:57:53 GMT -6 Alrighty i'll be sure to ask him about it then I think it would open up a few more options on what we could do. Thanks for the help!
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Long distance: Ideas and advice on getting through?

Post by matsuke on Mar 5, 2014 22:37:31 GMT -6

Post by Admin on Mar 5, 2014 22:44:01 GMT -6

Post by matsuke on Mar 5, 2014 23:00:41 GMT -6

Post by Admin on Mar 5, 2014 23:05:57 GMT -6

Post by matsuke on Mar 5, 2014 23:17:18 GMT -6

Post by Admin on Mar 6, 2014 1:00:16 GMT -6

Post by matsuke on Mar 6, 2014 13:57:53 GMT -6

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