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Post by zamberin on Feb 17, 2014 1:50:53 GMT -6
i feel like an asexual blob who likes people
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Post by zamberin on Feb 17, 2014 2:48:14 GMT -6
this may not sound serious but it actually is sorry
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 17, 2014 7:12:37 GMT -6
you don't need to know your sexuality!!
trust me, I spent a while worrying about whether I'd ever have to label myself or not because I never wanted to, and it stressed me out for a long time before I realizes who even cares and now I'm just whateversexual u feel
society puts too much construct into labels, and there are just so many out there that it can get sort of overwhelming, and then you have SPECTRUMS
like for instance in asexuality you could be asexual but hetero/homoromantic and you can like people but not want to touch their things, or like demisexual where you can only experience sexual attraction AFTER you've fallen in love with them, and then the classic asexual aromantic where everything is a no-go. If you find a side of the spectrum that fits you that's all good, but you honestly don't have to live your life under the influence of a label. It's fine for your sexuality to just be a big fat "idk idc" c:
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Post by eris on Feb 17, 2014 8:58:06 GMT -6
"you can like people but not want to touch their things"
i'm laughing way too much at that for some reason. THEIR THINGS.
but forreal omg like Cam said there is so much pressure on labels and putting yourself in a group in a box and just seeming like you have all your ducks in a row like everything is sorted into neat little folders but life is not like that no matter how much people want it to be!!! you don't need to know/label your sexuality or anything like that c:
attraction/love/yadadada that stuff is all very fluid and "liquid" if you will and it can literally change in a matter of time. iT'S GOT IT'S OWN MIND TBH
frACK THE WORLD there are too many things to grasp and people make it too complicated like whAT ARE YOU EVEN SAYING c'est la vie yolo swag
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 17, 2014 9:08:50 GMT -6
wHAT ELSe WAs I SUPSPOED TO SAY OMFG
not but seriously yeah, and if you do want to label yourself and then decide you're not that sexuality at all, you DO have the right to switch. You can literally be asexual one day and bi the next and straight up gay next week, it really doesn't matter as long as you're happy with who you are.
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Post by zamberin on Feb 17, 2014 12:12:43 GMT -6
oh yeah okay i like your perspectives. im pretty sure i'm like... a mixture of pansexual demisexual asexual weirdness y'know? but very homoromantic
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 17, 2014 15:34:21 GMT -6
that's cool man you can be all of them at the same time c:
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Post by zamberin on Feb 17, 2014 15:36:18 GMT -6
yay thank you ily
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Post by frozen on Feb 17, 2014 15:38:55 GMT -6
sexualities are like wrappers they're just hindering you from getting to the fun stuff who needs them
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 17, 2014 15:40:58 GMT -6
ahAHA THAT's THE BEST OMFG
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Post by eris on Feb 17, 2014 15:54:54 GMT -6
AGREED OHMG ALEX
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Post by jamie on Feb 17, 2014 19:01:08 GMT -6
sexualities are like wrappers they're just hindering you from getting to the fun stuff who needs them excuse me lemme just remove my wrappers if u kno wat i mean but yes!!!! what cam says! like, I'm straight? But I think girls are hella cute and I love them too. Like, I'm drawn towards guys, but if a girl asked me out on a date i would probably say yes (no only if we don't mesh well together!). I also wouldn't have any problems dating someone that was nonbinary/genderfluid/etc. you don't need to put a label on what you are. just go with what you feel is right for you!
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 17, 2014 20:24:09 GMT -6
/not maddie
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Post by jamie on Feb 17, 2014 20:31:51 GMT -6
IM SO SORRY OMG i edited the post!! adfjadksf im sorry i keep messin up ;A;
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 17, 2014 20:32:36 GMT -6
it's okay I still love yoouuu <3 <3
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Post by frozen on Feb 17, 2014 20:34:58 GMT -6
i just never say anyone's names i always say the wrong one no matter what lmfao
HEY YOU WITH THE FACE NOT THAT FACE THE OTHER FACE
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 17, 2014 20:36:12 GMT -6
not gonna lie for like an hour I was so confused with everyone like "who are you people"
just like how everyone on my tumblr dashboard like changed their urls all at once and I don't know who the heck any of these people are
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Post by eris on Feb 17, 2014 20:49:08 GMT -6
i changed my twitter handle so much that everytime i tweet at Jamie i think i'm going to give her stranger danger vibes omg
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Post by jamie on Feb 17, 2014 21:56:52 GMT -6
nah ari i always know it's you <3
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Post by zamberin on Feb 17, 2014 22:59:36 GMT -6
not gonna lie for like an hour I was so confused with everyone like "who are you people" just like how everyone on my tumblr dashboard like changed their urls all at once and I don't know who the heck any of these people are same !! i always feel bad when i dont know someones name bc they changed the url
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Post by eris on Feb 17, 2014 23:42:32 GMT -6
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Post by zamberin on Feb 17, 2014 23:46:30 GMT -6
IM GONNA CRY THAT IS SO ACCURATE
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 18, 2014 4:37:32 GMT -6
not gonna lie for like an hour I was so confused with everyone like "who are you people" just like how everyone on my tumblr dashboard like changed their urls all at once and I don't know who the heck any of these people are same !! i always feel bad when i dont know someones name bc they changed the url ONE TIME I WENT ON VACATION AND WHEN I CAME BACK IT WAS LIKE A FOREIGN LAND I DIDN'T KNOW WHO ANYBODY WAS AND WHAT
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Post by zamberin on Feb 18, 2014 12:22:32 GMT -6
same !! i always feel bad when i dont know someones name bc they changed the url ONE TIME I WENT ON VACATION AND WHEN I CAME BACK IT WAS LIKE A FOREIGN LAND I DIDN'T KNOW WHO ANYBODY WAS AND WHAT OMG THAT SOUNDS SO SCARY
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Post by prouvaire on Feb 18, 2014 14:45:30 GMT -6
YEAH LIKE PEOPLE NEED TO STOP DOING THAT
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